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I'm 24, I've always been shy and get anxious about Shy and attractive lady new people, but I can function normally in social situations and thought I was hiding it pretty well. I'm also Shy and attractive lady attractive not proud of it, just how I turned outalthough I didn't think it was relevant before.
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Then she said something that made me think. She said, "No offense, but I'm surprised [that you're fun to talk to]. I assumed you were kind of stuck up since you never talk to anyone. Then, on the bus home, I saw a really pretty, really stylish blonde girl get on the bus.
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Absolutely, and more to do with the quietness than attractiveness. So many people have told me once I got to know them that they thought I was a snob, or thought I was better than them. This always astounded me - most of the time, I was just nervous. The more I thought about it, the more it makes sense - I was putting out vibes that said I didn't want to be there, I wanted to get away, and when Shy and attractive lady see that I think attractige automatically assume it's about them i.
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It's a bit unfair, but understandable. As I've got older, I've tried to learn to project that even if I am nervous, that I am basically happy that ajd are there, or curious about them.
Thanks, I think this is what's happening. I am definitely giving off those terrified vibes that are being misinterpreted. It bums me out because I thought I had gotten a lot better at hiding it.
I definitely feel you. We're taught that between aloof and pathetic, aloof is Shy and attractive lady safe choice. But if you are okay with being shy and maybe awkward but open, you get into more situations where you eventually get more comfortable.
I'm still working on it for sure. When you're Shy and attractive lady "conventionally attractive" it takes one of two forms: Yes, this is pretty common. A lot of women who are conventionally attractive and are introverts get this sort of treatment.
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It doesn't get brought up often because if layd issue is brought up, a lot of "you are lucky and Shy and attractive lady, you can't complain, you have it easy" attitude is what you are greeted with.
I think it's because some societies place certain expectations on attractive people whether intentionally or unintentionally to be perfect.
If you don't meet those expectations, then some people get upset. Wttractive definitely a privilege most of the attraxtive and I don't Shy and attractive lady to seem like I'm complaining, but I feel like I do get a lot more negative attention and scrutiny. Like I'm expected to act more "girly," or that I party Nsa sex chat phoenix lot, or that there must be something wttractive with me if I'm not in a relationship.
Yeah I feel like I may come across as a bitch to strangers. I have resting bitch face and I'm pretty much a recluse. But I like to think I'm friendly enough when actually talking to people.
It's just hard to make friends, I have Shy and attractive lady social anxiety anyway. I think a lot of people just act that way out of jealousy, to Shy and attractive lady honest. Some people don't understand because they feel a "grass is greener" sort of thing, if you say there are problems associated with being attractive. It's not just negative attention either, but also unwanted attractiv can be a problem that some people don't understand.
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I just wish we could all acknowledge Penobscot ME sex dating everyone has Shy and attractive lady, regardless of how they look, or their gender, or what have you. I feel like we should all just get along and stop minimizing each others experiences and try to be more understanding in general. I feel this way too. When I go new places I travel a lot for work and other reasons I run into a lot of new people often where I am staying.
Shy and attractive lady the guys are the first to introduce themselves and be friendly, but by now, in my mids, on top of my pretty substantial base layer of social anxiety I have like 8 years of experience of guys talking to me in order to ans hit on me, and then since I have a boyfriend things turn awkward when I don't reciprocate and the friendships Shy and attractive lady friendliness end. I ,ady a LOT of social anxiety across the board anyway, but at this point sometimes it just seems better not to talk to guys at all, and I tend to cut the conversation short or leave eventually, or fake disinterest, but being so shy I truly hate the isolation too.
One thing that has helped me is imagining they are in the same position I am, Shy and attractive lady are too shy to approach anyone too. It forces me to be more outgoing, but it certainly gives me the sweats. I've got a half decent poker face though, so I probably seem a lot less nervous than I am. The worst that can happen is they don't want to talk to you much, and you find someone else more chatty.
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Same for the girl I spoke to recently here who said she would Attraactive die than ask men out because she doesn't want to be rejected for being covered in coarse, unattractive body hair. I have no problem acknowledging that your problems are real problems, but let's not pretend that they're anywhere near as bad as the problems of people who have physical features Shy and attractive lady make them outright undesirable.
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Some attractive people cannot see that they are attractive, they think they're hideous. They can have self-esteem issues, BDD or just be clueless on how to act socially. It's just as real to attractice as actually being unattractive.
Maybe to others, but not to themselves. I think that's part of the problem, people have less sympathy for them.
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They attractuve get treated better even though they don't know it. If the gods suddenly made them ugly one day I'm pretty sure they would notice the sudden drop off in the quality of their social interactions.
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Just because you are blind to something doesn't mean you aren't benefitting from it. See virtually any kind ladh privilege. I'd like to respectfully disagree.
Like I said in a separate post, it's not good to compare peoples problems apples to oranges. I think Holden UT bi horny wives a futile effort to say who's problems are worse.
What I had meant about "unwanted" attention is actually a lot harsher than I had made it seem. I was actually referring to being stalked, which has personally happened to me before. Shy and attractive lady not saying people who are unconventional looking don't have stalkers, or those sorts of problems. I'm just saying there Shy and attractive lady negatives that come with being attractive too. I don't want to compare who has it worse, because I sincerely think that is a waste of everyone's time and it marginalizes what both groups go through.
I would like to acknowledge that both groups have difficulties and I wish more people would see it that way. I am 33, Young looking, slim and attractive. I Shy and attractive lady happen to have social anxiety. The other mothers at my daughters school only acknowledge me with dirty looks, even though I always smile. More likely is that being attractive means you have it easier in areas x and y.
So people expect you'd take advantage of that, and when you don't their response is "well why not". I am completely unattractive, but I'm relatively smart and good at programming.
Instead of taking complete advantage of that I don't. I could study every day, get a 4.